There are many things that are really under my control. But there will always be some things that are not. Although I often try to change the course of things, there comes a point where sometimes the outcome of a situation depends on someone else. Often, the more I try to force an outcome, the worse the outcome usually is.
Some people believe in destiny. I don’t. But I do like “let go and let god.” After giving it all I’ve got, and without embarrassing myself, I have to let go. I’ve done the best I can. There might be closure, there might not be. And that’s okay, because it has to be.